Mom Puts Entire Family on 'Screen Detox' & Daughter Has Already Jumped 5 Reading Levels

Most of us would love to whittle down our kids' screen time to just an hour, but speaking with CafeMom, Molly admits that even that wasn't cutting it. The turning point came when she noticed her kids were "grumpy and argumentative" whenever it came time to turn off the screens.

"One day, I came home from running errands and my son greeted me at the door with, 'Can I play on your phone?'" she says. "That was the last straw for me."

So she came up with a plan.

"I talked with my husband and we agreed it was time for a change," she recalls. "That night at dinner, we told the kids we were taking a screen break. They protested, of course. But after a few tears, everyone moved on."

The next day, her kids didn't even try to ask for screen time "since they knew it was a non-starter," she says now.

"What happened over the next few weeks blew our minds," Molly continues. "It was like we flipped a switch: We had our kids back. They were more obedient, less grumpy, played better together, more creative and happier."

Although she braced herself for a rougher transition and fully expected to get some pushback, she was pleasantly surprised when there wasn't any.

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For her kids, that meant pulling out the art supplies and books, looking into piano lessons, and getting more math puzzles. Soon enough, instead of looking for screens to keep them occupied, they had plenty of other options — each of which challenged their minds.

"Of course, technology can be helpful and wonderful — in its right place," she tells CafeMom. "We have since tried to put technology in its proper place in our home."

Molly now allows them to play a preapproved video game or watch a show for one hour on Sundays. 

"That's it," she says. "The bottom line for us is allowing technology to work for us, rather than being enslaved to technology."

In a Facebook post, Molly teased the article with a photo of all five of her kids happily reading in bed together. (Yep, you read that right.)

"We did not stage this photo," she joked in the caption, before noting how books have become huge in her home these last few months. 

"A few Saturdays into our screen detox, my kids woke up one by one and saw my husband and I reading in bed," she continued. "They grabbed their own books and joined us. At restaurants, they bring a stack of books instead of propped iPads." 

All this reading has had some real tangible results too. "My daughter has grown five reading levels in seven months," the mom proudly shared.

Of course, Molly still lets her kids be kids, and tells us that when the kids are at their friends' houses, their parents make the rules on screen time. But they're no longer addicted to them.

"Usually if they are hanging out with friends or cousins, they would rather play than watch TV," she explains. "So it works out."

Originally, the ban was only supposed to be for a few weeks, but Molly says after seeing how well it was going, she decided to extend it for a few months. Instead of going completely back to how things were, her kiddos are allowed an hour of screen time per week, and that's been working just fine for everyone. She also has advice to share for parents who are interested in trying a screen detox themselves.

"I would say step one is to quit screens cold turkey for a specified amount of time," she says. "Then, watch the results and make a plan that works best for your family."

In the end, Molly hopes that her own progress will encourage and inspire parents to take the plunge with their own families.

"If you feel like technology and screens have too big a place in your home," she notes, "you can change that, and it’s not as hard as you’d think."